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Let it be..

If you can't run fast enough, Let it be. Be joyful and observe everything around. If you can't cook delicacies like your online ideal, Let it be. Love the act of cooking. If you never experienced love like those in films, Let it be. Enjoy the movie and escape away. If you have not figured out it all , Let it be  And be patient with yourself. If you cry listening to a song for the feelings you never had, Let it be a medium for letting out  your hidden emotions. If you are not able to travel every 3 months, Let it be. Its nothing to show off about. If you can't express yourself , No don't fall for the refrain, Learn to do how. Everybody has  different path,vibe and timing. Embrace you uniqueness and let it be.

Five things trekking teaches us

Recently i went on a trip that mainly included climbing a mountain. Seemingly I am not a adventurous person but my soul is ,it has a FOMO and it don't want to miss anything in the world that gives it an adrenaline rush. During the trek many thoughts crossed my mind and i decided to jot them down. 1. Falling is unpredictable,so learn to rise   While walking on the bumpy mountain path you may be very cautious that you don't fall ,but sometimes you  fall suddenly . So you take some rest but you don't quit because that is not an option in trekking as you need to complete the journey. In life also we should never give up and should achieve our goals even after encountering failures. We should not let our past  decide our future.It is very important to build resilience in life because it will help you with your risk taking abilities and trying new things in life. 2. Look around from time to time Its important to be focused when we climb a mountain so that we don't...

The Alternate Universe

Lets think about an alternate Universe , something different from our current scenario where people are free , only chained by some moral laws which respect all human rights. Nobody has to worry about food, clothes and shelter they get a monthly income and house to live no matter what they do. They are not told about a list of career options in their lives and the measure of success. They do something because they want to do it, they like to do it , it drives them and is also an important thing to do. There are no prejudices about anything. Lets put emphasis on whether it is even possible or not. Can we progress as a community if we have a system where there is no stress at all? Can such a system will be functionally possible? Even in the wildlife , everything is not fair. The faster tiger will get the deer. The more flexible monkey will get that last banana on  tree. The slower deer will be served in dinner. So how can we expect the human system to work systematically ...

Never dreamt of a Prince

Many Girls dream of a prince on white horse, I never did . I always wanted someone i can sing with or sing for, Someone i can dance with, Someone i can laugh with, Someone i can cry in front of, Someone i can share popcorn with, Someone i love travelling with ( adventurous spirit) A best friend,a confidant. Someone who understands my silence,my ambitions,my impulsiveness,my craziness and appreciates that too. Someone who loves me, not because of what's outside but what's inside. This is all i have dreamt of. Hope its not too much to ask ,still less than asking for a prince. Isn't it? Thanks for reading !!!

Understanding People

Usually we divide people in various categories introvert, extrovert, funny, sarcastic, easy going, shy etc. Then  we choose whether we have the same frequency with them or not using our intuition. Sometimes its hard to understand why we get along with people who are so different from us. I would not call myself a  people's person because i am definitely not . In my school/college i have been a shy person who concentrated on studies mostly. But as i grew up i now know my self as an introvert who knows with  whom i want to open up to. As a shy person is not confident enough to enjoy things they like  when surrounded by people, i have stopped calling myself shy. Its very difficult to understand people like parents can't understand their children and vice versa, husbands can't understand their wives, bosses can't understand their employees , trump can't understand china(this one is joke , no one can understand their eating habits) and so on.  If  we try to unde...

The CycleMan

Cycle man was a simple man with a crooked nose,red teeth (he ate supari a lot may be) and with a happy smile ( i can detect when a smile is happy or fake). Like in my office most of the time we  smile on people while saying good morning or hello (so its real by few people) but that is a thing of past too due to this quarantine phase of our lives.  I saw him only once in my life and i have forgot his face but don't know why his memory is there at the back of my mind always. I am calling him cycle man because it was the only costly materialistic thing he possessed  since a happy soul ,contentment and his stunt skills can't be count as possessions. This was during my Udaipur visit with my friends. Udaipur is a very nice place to travel , the majestic palaces,vast and calm lakes,super delicious street food,lakeside hotels ,folk music,refreshing tea,warm rajasthani hospitality,beautiful sunrise and even more beautiful sunset  and everything that makes you feel...

Thoughts I had during Quarantine

Quarantine Soch 1. Tiktok install kar loon? (Judge na kare galti insaan se hi hoti h) 2. Kuch naya seek leti hu (0 bata lull) 3. Roz aese hi nayi nayi dishes banati rahi to main to chef ban jaungi (after doing cooking in first two weeks). 4. Mummy kitna kaam karti hai yaar,mera kya hoga aage mujhe to kuch ni aata.(bematlab ki anxiety) 5. Main to kuch meaningful ni kar ri life me.(sahi anxiety). 6. According to psychology you meet your soulmate at 16,mujhe to abi tak koi ni mila.(faltu k fb post ka deep analysis) 7. Agar lockdown me mera chashma toot gaya to kaam kese karungi.(spare wala b ofc me h) 8. Agar lockdown me kisi ka laptop kharaab ho jae to ofc wale kaam kese karaenge usse.(mischievous thoughts) 9. Use text karu kya,meme hi bhej deti hu(main kyun karu) 10. Sahi hai meri eyebrow ni aati , phli bar is cheez se khush hu main zindagi main. (#self love, or koi to karta ni kyunki) 11. Dahi jamane k lie fridge ki zarurat nahi hoti mujhe to pata hi ni tha.(Stupid person) 12. Ram ji o...